"I see why you don't have many friends..." first let me say that is the WRONG way to start a sentence, second I missed the memo that it was the goal to have lots of friends. That statement illustrates for me that people don't really know the definition of the word "friend." Google defines friend as a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations. The part that we need to emphasize is "...one has a bon